I remember the first time I heard about “ID Sessions.” I was standing on the sidelines, clutching my coffee cup, nervously watching my daughter weave through a sea of brightly colored jerseys. A fellow parent casually mentioned it, “Oh, are you ready for ID Sessions?” I nodded as if I knew exactly what they were talking about, but inside, my stomach did a flip.
ID Sessions. It sounded so... official. So important. So intimidating. I imagined lines of coaches with clipboards, sharp whistles, and the pressure of making some sort of cut. My mind raced with questions: What if she doesn’t perform well? What if she doesn’t make the team? What if she’s crushed?
If you’re reading this and feeling the same butterflies, take a deep breath. I promise, it’s not as scary as it sounds.
Here’s the thing: ID Sessions are just a way for coaches to see where your child fits best. It’s an opportunity—not a judgment. Coaches want to place each player where they will grow, be challenged, and most importantly, have fun. It’s not about who’s the best now; it’s about potential, effort, and passion.
I’ve learned a few things along the way that I wish someone had told me back then. Maybe they’ll help you, too:
At its core, an ID Session is just another day to play the game they love. Don’t hype it up too much or let nerves take over. Keep your pre-game routine the same—let them have fun, relax, and just play.
Kids pick up on our emotions. If you’re anxious or overly invested, they’ll feel it. I’ve been guilty of this more than once. Now, I remind myself to smile, be encouraging, and keep it light. Celebrate the effort, not the outcome.
Your child might not end up on the “top” team. And that’s okay. Sometimes, being on a team where they’re a leader, learning a new position, or building confidence is far more valuable than being just another player on a more competitive roster.
The coaches have a plan. They’re looking at the big picture, seeing things we might not. Trust their judgment. Remember, they want your child to succeed just as much as you do.
Soccer is a journey. There will be highs and lows, victories and defeats. It’s not just about soccer; it’s about teaching resilience, teamwork, and passion. The friendships they’ll build and the memories they’ll make are worth far more than any roster spot.
Okay, maybe not everything, but post-session ice cream certainly lightens the mood. Celebrate the effort, no matter what.
Years from now, you won’t remember the outcome of that first ID Session. You’ll remember the car rides, the post-game laughs, the muddy uniforms, and the pride you felt watching them chase that ball with all their heart.
So, to all the new soccer parents nervously awaiting your first ID Session, I’ll leave you with this: Breathe. Smile. Enjoy the chaos. This is just one moment in a beautiful, unpredictable journey. And trust me, it’s worth every second.
See you on the sidelines (I’ll be the one holding the coffee, probably still pretending to have it all figured out).
Love,
A Fellow Soccer Mommy
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